On deviantArt. I have just seen the most offensive case of abusive, threatening and bullying behaviour directed toward one of my dear friends,
sempraseverus. I know that dA is one of the most hypocritcal, screwed-up sites on the internet, but it honestly frightened me today. These two people were literally circling her like a shark, calling her names, threatening to get her banned, openly plotting against her on one of her own comment threads...I tell you, it was like something you'd see in a flim. Completely disturbing.
I asked to be re-instated on dA just to be able to comment to my friends how much I love their art and to just try to encourage them as much as they encourage me, but this literally made my blood run cold. There are some seriously nasty pieces of work out there, and I find it disturbing that they are so gleeful about how they bully and taunt someone. I'm glad I no longer have anything posted there, and I won't post there again.
My artistic friends, be so careful. There are too many people out there who, rather than try to build you up and encourage and inspire, live to tear you down and hurl abuse, and that's what this person was doing - hurling abuse at Sempra, for no other reason, it seemed, than just because she could.
I asked to be re-instated on dA just to be able to comment to my friends how much I love their art and to just try to encourage them as much as they encourage me, but this literally made my blood run cold. There are some seriously nasty pieces of work out there, and I find it disturbing that they are so gleeful about how they bully and taunt someone. I'm glad I no longer have anything posted there, and I won't post there again.
My artistic friends, be so careful. There are too many people out there who, rather than try to build you up and encourage and inspire, live to tear you down and hurl abuse, and that's what this person was doing - hurling abuse at Sempra, for no other reason, it seemed, than just because she could.
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Date: 2011-09-03 12:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-03 12:40 am (UTC)sempra is a sweetheart and the warmest person.
this is just bull shit. it's wank. it's nasty.
At least our sempra is here on LJ.
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Date: 2011-09-03 01:10 am (UTC)I wish I could think of such lovely things to say in the midst of being lambasted.
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Date: 2011-09-03 01:22 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-03 01:27 am (UTC)And I'm quite sure they're utterly bitter wenches who would shit if someone did it to them.
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Date: 2011-09-03 01:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-03 02:01 am (UTC)I feel like I'm in some sort of alternate universe where the good guys are carved out of cream cheese.
I tell you, the exchange and it's smut can't come soon enough!!!!
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Date: 2011-09-03 02:08 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-03 02:10 am (UTC)Seriously, the smug self-righteous berks. It will make your blood run cold. I've tried to call Sempra tonight to see if she's alright, but she's out - probably enjoying herself away from these nut cases.
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Date: 2011-09-03 06:56 am (UTC)I'm sorry if I sound quite dense here - but the HP books are set in the UK, yes?
The age of consent in the UK, Wales, Ireland and Scotland is 16, REGARDLESS of sexual orientation or gender. To be clear, this is the age that a person can legally have sex with any person over the age of 18.
However, in UK and Wales, if person A (over the age of 18) is in a position of trust over person B (under 18) then it's not on - so as long as Snape is no longer his/her teacher, there's really no breach as I can see it.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe
I know that DA is a US site, but even in the US, the age of consent varies from state to state, and ranges between 16 and 18.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#United_States
I'm not making any moral or ethical stance here, simply stating the laws as they stand, so I really can't see the legal problem as they argue it.
I don't see anyone being charged, or having their work pulled from DA or other sites over, for example, Arthurian, Ancient Roman, Greek, Egyptian etc tales or artwork in which girls of 13 and 14 are married to adult men or are sexually active in other ways, or in the series I'm currently reading - A Song of Ice and Fire, where girls of the same age group are sexually active with adult men.
I don't see George R.R. Martin being charged with kiddie porn, nor Marion Zimmer Bradley, for example, for her book The Mists of Avalon.
Shall we rewrite such a basic part of history and even current laws to satisfy the current social mores? How far should these sites take it?
It may be disturbing for some people, but that doesn't make it illegal - and that seems to be the argument these sites seem to be using.
So much of fanart and fan fiction is in the 'what if' category, and/or extrapolation that it all seems very hypocritical on the part of DA and other sites regarding this rule.
I know it's an emotive subject, and certain lines perhaps shouldn't be crossed for the sake of titillation, but I can't see how sites like DA can have double, triple, quadruple etc standards regarding this.
This is about art (supposedly) for heaven's sake!
I'm considering doing a post on this subject - I'll more than likely get flamed, but I think it's a subject that needs to be pondered and discussed - hopefully in a rational manner.
Edit - I've just done a post on this - I've repeated a lot of what I've said here, and a few extra things - I just thought it was a subject worth putting out there.
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Date: 2011-09-03 09:56 am (UTC)Wank. Utter fucking wank. Shameless!
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Date: 2011-09-03 11:10 am (UTC)Please pass on my good wishes
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Date: 2011-09-03 03:58 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-03 04:39 pm (UTC)I'm sorry to see Sempra go, but at least she'll be here, on LJ. Thank god for that.
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Date: 2011-09-03 04:46 pm (UTC)And you, Teddy, you defended Sempra. Kudos to you, for actually trying to reason with idiots. Like someone once said: don't try to argue with an idiot, they'll only drag you to their level and beat you with experience.
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Date: 2011-09-04 02:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-04 05:13 am (UTC)You can inbox me if you'd rather not discuss it here ;o)
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Date: 2011-09-05 03:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-05 03:20 am (UTC)I despise this rude attitude that says, 'because it's the internet and I'm anonymous I can just push my way into a private conversation with no manners at all.' These are the anti-creativity mob, and I despise their 'I know the rules and I'm superior' attitude.
I've stopped replying because, quite frankly, I wasn't talking to them. If they did that in real life they'd be considered one of the most boorish, obnoxious berks on the planet, but since it's the internet, apparently it's okay.
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Date: 2011-09-05 09:29 am (UTC)I felt quite the wally once your LJ page loaded - talking to myself again!
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Date: 2011-09-05 03:25 pm (UTC)You know, I've just gotten a better understanding of why Hermione irritated the crap out of Severus so much when she was younger! It also leads me to believe that these 'trolls' are about that same age, as well.
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Date: 2011-09-05 04:10 pm (UTC)Yes, I can often understand how Severus felt when she was about the same age as my son -
I noticed that a couple of them were around the 15-16 mark.
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Date: 2011-09-12 08:10 am (UTC)I hope sempraseverus is reading this: Please know that you have the support of sane human beings that simply enjoy your art and are grateful that you are willing to share it with people you don't know. if you do choose to move your art elsewhere, I hope there will be a way to find you. Wishing you the best, Donna, donnambr on DA.