You are not--I repeat NOT--an unworthy friend. You are the same lovely lady we have loved for years! And while I'm on a roll, I'm going to second the advice others have offered:
•Please look into a very good lawyer, and start printing your bank statements for the last four or five years at a minimum.
•Get yourself separate bank accounts in your name and start moving money into them.
•Get your own credit card(s) in your own name.
•Write a "story" about what life has been like for you and Trev for the last four or five years.
And remember, I can help, and I care about what happens to you. (((hugs you)))
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Date: 2021-10-27 12:16 pm (UTC)•Please look into a very good lawyer, and start printing your bank statements for the last four or five years at a minimum.
•Get yourself separate bank accounts in your name and start moving money into them.
•Get your own credit card(s) in your own name.
•Write a "story" about what life has been like for you and Trev for the last four or five years.
And remember, I can help, and I care about what happens to you. (((hugs you)))