funny, when i clicked on the link i was expecting something else. I read an article a while back about the whole male doing it to the female thing and turning it on its head. It suggested thinking in terms like the woman'enfolding'the male, for example and the vunerability in the male surrendering to the female, her extracting his spunk and his role in the whole reproductive process being over. I suppose the man should be thankful that he gets to live after coitus and doesn't become a nutritious snack once his job is done like in some species. ;)