Oh, Sweetie... you have nothing to be sorry for! Venues that are good for one person just aren't necessarily good for another person, because of personality differences. I just have a thing about rules. Always did. Didn't follow them when I went to Catholic school. Not about to start now. For other people, it seems like much ado about nothing.

I love you, Sweetie, and I hope you didn't take all this the wrong way. It's very difficult to convey the mood of things sometimes.